As a Child, I was Relentlessly Abused by a Catholic Priest. As an Adult, it Almost Killed me Twice
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Gerard Gorman’s story is a haunting portrayal of the profound and enduring impact of childhood sexual abuse at the hands of Fr Malachy Finegan, a trusted figure at St Colman’s College in Northern Ireland. At just 11 years old, Gorman experienced the first of many assaults that would plague his adolescence and haunt him into adulthood.
Key Highlights:
Duration and nature: The abuse lasted for six months and included molestation and rape. Gorman didn’t tell anyone about it, feeling scared and ashamed.
Long-term effects: Even after leaving the school, Gorman struggled with the trauma for many years. It negatively impacted his relationships, mental health, and behavior. To deal with his trauma, Gorman turned to alcohol and rebellious behavior. These coping strategies had a severe negative impact on his family life.
Disclosure: In his 50s, Gorman finally revealed the abuse to a psychiatrist and his family. This led to a suicide attempt but also marked the start of his healing process.
Legal action: Gorman sued the Catholic Church, which settled with him in 2017 and acknowledged the harm done.
Public exposure: In 2018, Gorman participated anonymously in a BBC documentary that exposed Finegan’s abuse of multiple boys. Gorman publicly revealed his identity and co-authored a memoir about his experiences.
Current focus: Despite ongoing challenges, Gorman is now concentrating on healing, repairing family relationships, and finding peace, particularly through his relationships with his grandchildren.
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