Even the most loving children say hurtful words like “I hate you” to their parents. Here’s what to say in response.
Hearing “I hate you” from your own child can feel very deflating and upsetting. If this has happened to you, take heart. Even though your child said it, it doesn’t mean they really hate you. Instead, it often signals that they’re mad, sad, embarrassed, confused, or upset in some other way. They just don’t know how else to talk about those big feelings.