Pace Webb shares her strategy for making her husband a more “equal parent” by changing how she responds to his questions. She advises not answering every question he can figure out himself, as this empowers him and reduces her mental load. For example, instead of answering simple queries like “What time is soccer practice?” she encourages him to think for himself. Webb explains that women often become default caretakers, which can lead to a cycle of micromanagement. She suggests using responses like “I’m not sure” or “What do you think?” to prompt independence. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of pre-establishing household responsibilities and conducting regular check-ins to ensure tasks are divided fairly and meet both partners’ standards. This approach helps alleviate the mental burden often placed on one partner, fostering a more equitable parenting dynamic.
https://www.today.com/parents/moms/mom-husband-asks-too-many-questions-rcna174403
