March 25 2024- Educational psychologist Michele Borba emphasizes the distinction between “self-confidence” and “self-esteem” in raising successful children. While self-esteem reflects overall self-perception, self-confidence is crucial for believing in one’s abilities in specific situations. Research indicates that self-confidence is a stronger predictor of future success as it reinforces children’s belief in their skills and efforts leading to positive outcomes. Borba suggests that real self-confidence is cultivated through overcoming challenges independently. Parents can support their child’s self-confidence by allowing them to experience success and failure on their own, fostering resilience and a belief in their ability to ultimately succeed.
