The author reflects on their childhood in the 90s, recalling fond memories of exploring the neighborhood and spending time outdoors with friends, with minimal adult supervision. However, as a parent today, they notice a shift toward helicopter parenting, where children are given less independence. Concerned about the negative effects of overprotectiveness and excessive use of technology, the author is determined to foster independence in their 9-year-old daughter, Aster. They highlight how modern parenting, driven by fears of perceived dangers and media influence, is contributing to mental health issues in children and limiting their ability to experience childhood freely.