January 15 2024- Deciding whether to invite your 13-year-old cousin with special needs to your no-kids wedding is a personal choice that depends on various factors. It’s understandable that you want to maintain an intimate and kid-free atmosphere for your wedding, and your concerns are valid. However, considering your parents’ financial contribution and their desire to include your cousin, it might be worth finding a middle ground.
You could discuss with your parents the possibility of making special accommodations for your cousin, such as having a designated area or a caretaker available to ensure her comfort and enjoyment without disrupting the overall atmosphere. This compromise allows you to be considerate of your cousin’s needs while still maintaining the wedding environment you envision.
https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/12/dear-prudence-child-free-wedding.html
