March 2 2024- Carey Finn and her wife Ali, both passionate about judo since childhood, met in Tokyo as adults and married later. Despite Japan not recognizing same-sex marriage, they found Tokyo to be an ideal place to raise their family. The couple used a donor, and each gave birth to one of their two children. Finn’s early experience with judo in South Africa sparked her interest in Japan, and the martial art became a constant in her life, instilling discipline, physical and mental strength, and a focus on manners. The couple plans to introduce their children to judo when they are old enough.
My wife and I are raising 2 kids in Japan. Our marriage is not recognized here — but it still feels easier than back home.
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