Let’s face it, knowing how to handle tantrums can be a struggle, and for good reason. They can be explosive and unpredictable. And if you’re tired or stressed, they can feel all-the-more difficult to deal with. If you’re like many parents and carers, it’s hard to stay calm when a temper tantrum happens. It can help to remember tantrums are a normal part of young children’s development. They can be as short as 20 seconds or go on and on, and are common in the toddler years.