A mother is debating whether she was wrong to refuse to feed two children who came to her kid’s birthday party unannounced. On Feb. 26, she penned a lengthy post on the UK-based parenting site Mumsnet’s “Am I Being Unreasonable?” forum, writing under the username itsmeits. The mom explained that she arranged a bouncy castle party at a local leisure center for her 8-year-old child to celebrate with up to 40 other kids.