During a mother-daughter lunch, Kate Washington listened as her 17-year-old daughter, Nora, excitedly discussed her future career plans, only to later express concerns about balancing her ambitions with motherhood. Nora acknowledged that mothers do more and questioned if it would be possible to manage both. The conversation highlighted early signs of gender inequity, as Nora pointed out that none of her male peers seemed concerned about balancing career and caregiving responsibilities, which was painful for both Kate and Melissa, two authors focused on caregiving and equality in partnerships.