Many young people entering into their independent lives as grown-ups find themselves surprised and frustrated when they realize there are certain old-fashioned things many parents still expect from their adult children. Often without realizing they are doing it, parents will apply pressure on their adult kids, overstepping boundaries as both parents and children struggle to find their way with shifting roles in their family dynamic.
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