March 2 2024- The author expresses concern about their three-year marriage, sharing that they and their husband plan to have a child soon. The main issue revolves around their husband’s behavior during serious arguments. The husband consistently threatens to leave, occasionally following through by leaving the house for a few hours. Upon returning, he apologizes for his departure. While the couple doesn’t frequently fight, the husband consistently concludes arguments with threats of leaving or suggesting divorce when upset. The author finds these actions distressing and admits to lying awake at night, worrying about the state of their relationship.