February 5 2024- The letter writer and his wife tried for eight years to have kids, eventually deciding to embrace a child-free life. However, his wife unexpectedly became pregnant, and despite the husband’s initial worries, they now have a 3-year-old son. The husband confesses to feeling constant resentment, exhaustion, and a sense of loss for the freedom he gave up. He is seeking advice, perspective, and encouragement, acknowledging that he loves his son but struggles with the unexpected challenges of parenthood, compounded by a lack of family and peer support. He is currently seeing a therapist but hopes for additional insights to cope with his complex feelings.
https://slate.com/human-interest/2023/12/wife-late-child-regret-dad-care-and-feeding-advice.html
