March 5 2024- The author reflects on their parenting approach, emphasizing their commitment to following intuition and nurturing their children. Despite facing disapproval and comments from extended family members, the author remains steadfast in their belief that their parenting choices contribute to long-term mental and emotional well-being for their children. The article touches on instances where the author received criticism for responding to their baby’s cues, holding a baby too much, or patiently comforting an upset older child. The author counters the notion of spoiling by asserting that their parenting style is grounded in promoting the well-being of their children.