February 8 2024- The author reflects on their transformation from a “helicopter parent” to embracing the Chinese philosophy of Wu Wei, meaning “non-action” or “effortless action.” Initially driven by the American societal expectation of relentless ambition, the author’s move to China exposed them to a more relaxed parenting style. Despite the initial puzzlement, the author came to understand the concept of Wu Wei, challenging their belief that constant supervision and pushing were essential for success. This shift in perspective led to profound realizations about success and parenting, highlighting the potential benefits of a more balanced and less overbearing approach.
