March 5 2024- The author reflects on the dynamics of age gaps among their children and how it influences their interactions. Despite the warmth between the older and middle siblings, the middle child’s behavior towards the youngest sibling becomes a concern. Clinical psychologist Tracy King notes that age differences can impact common interests and competition among siblings. The author worries about the lack of friendliness and contemplates potential parental contributions to the issue. Psychologist Joanna Silver emphasizes that occasional sibling conflicts are natural. Research indicates that parenting styles also play a role in sibling conflicts, with authoritative styles reducing conflict and others exacerbating it. The article concludes with the suggestion that proactive, positive, and purposeful parenting can help alleviate conflicts between siblings.
