The writer, a mother of two, expresses concern over her mother’s tendency to offer unsolicited advice, particularly regarding grooming. The issue came to light when her 12-year-old daughter, Ava, mentioned that her grandmother suggested she should shave her legs. The mother is uncomfortable with her mother’s behavior, especially after a previous incident where she cut Ava’s hair without permission. Seeking guidance, she asks what she should do. Amy advises the mother to talk to Ava, emphasizing that her body hair is her own decision. Additionally, Amy suggests having a conversation with the grandmother to convey the same message. She advises the mother to continue reinforcing these boundaries as needed.
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