Labeling children as “shy” when they feel bashful or withdrawn can be counterproductive. Instead of defining them by shyness, parents should focus on helping them manage these feelings. The American Psychological Association describes shyness as feeling awkward or tense in social situations, which can lead to severe reactions like blushing, sweating, or withdrawing. To support a child struggling with shyness, parents can help them recognize that these feelings are normal and encourage healthy coping strategies. Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., provides research-based advice on her website, Parenting Science, offering practical solutions for parents to assist their children in developing social skills and overcoming shyness in interactions.
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