March 12 2024- The author, a social psychologist, couples counselor, and relationship expert with over 20 years of experience, asserts that many individuals and couples struggle with building and nurturing loving relationships. They highlight the importance of addressing operational aspects of relationships, such as administrative tasks, which are often overlooked during busy periods. The author recommends implementing a weekly operations check-in to discuss upcoming administrative duties, emphasizing its significance in preventing conflicts arising from daily tasks and perceptions of fairness between partners. They stress the importance of prioritizing this check-in as non-negotiable, even if time is limited.